Samasrayanam for unmarried girl

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18 on August 17, 2016

 

What is the way for unmarried girl to get Aarcharya/Ramanujar tiruvadi sambandam?  Or if a girl dies(devareer have explained ,”PURANJ CHUVAR OTTAI MADAM PURALUM BOTHU ARIYA MATEER”- as we cannot predict when our body falls) before having samasreyanam from acharya only because she is not married , will not Swamy Ramanuja accept that jeevathma at His lotus feet? Does it means unmarried women are not elligible for moksha even though she is willing to get rid of birth death cycle and longing for vaikuntha nathan’s divine feet?

 
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Girl or boy, married or unmarried are elegible for moksham. Samasrayanam is the way prescribed for the married women. For the unmarried, Ramanuja sambandham is possible by worshipping his Tirumeni, by reciting Adiyen Ramanuja Dasan and Srimate Ramanujaya Namaha and also serving one’s own acharya.

on August 17, 2016

Dhanyosmi swamy…

on September 9, 2019

Swami, can a bachelor do samasrrayanam? I am planning do it for my son who is 10 years old.

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0 on March 10, 2017
Namaskaram Swamy,  
Requesting a small clarification in this regard swamy… As, “Adiyen Ramanuja Dasan” is the name that one’s Acharya gives at the time of Pancha Samskaram… Is the recitation of “Adiyen Ramanuja Dasan” valid swamy, without getting it from one’s Acharya, before samasrayanam…?
Adiyen.
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Sri Ramanuja Munaye Namaha,

Sri Velukkudi Krishnan Swami Guruve Namaha,

 

Dear Radhika BhagavAta,

 

Yes, saying “Adiyen Ramanuja Dasan or Dasyai” is VALID all times and has SAME EFFECT “Before or After” Samsrayanam.

 

By Getting the Dasa naamam from Acharyar is a special  enjoyment for BhagavAN SriKrishna, since Acharyan and Mahans Sri Velukkudi Swami are the ones who taught us about Swami Ramanuja Sambhandham. So, if there is an opportunity to do Samsrayanam with any of the Ramanuja Sambhandha Acharya lineages, then we should do it at the EARLIEST CHANCE for BhagavAN’s Happiness.

 

If one is NOT able to do Pancha-Samskaram/Prapatti/Samasrayanam due to their Family Circumstances, but WE have AASAI, then they can get Ramanuja Sambhandham by following the other 14 ways of the 15 ways to get Ramanuja Sambhandham for Moksham (SriVaikuntam) and Nithya Kainkaryam in same Janma. Following any ONE way HAS SAME EFFECT as other ways as well. So, Swami has said Ma Sucha Ha to all who wants to go to Moksham and do Nithya Kanikaryam. Swami has said, this is all due to SWAMI RAMNUJAR’S NIRHEDHUKAI KRUPAI (Causeless Mercy).

 

Adiyen listed some of these ways from Sri Velukkudi Krishnan Swami’s 2017 KKT Calender CD “Ramanuja Vaibhavam” in the below thread in the past. Please listen to Swami’s lucid explanation at the end of the CD where Swami explains the 15 ways to get Swami Ramanuja Sambhandham for Moksham (SriVaikuntam) and Nithya Kainkaryam in SAME JANMA. Adiyen also will post it in a fresh thread with pictures about these 15 ways later for the benefit of other BhagavAtas.

 

https://www.kinchit.org/dharma-sandeha/thread/smartha-becoming-a-vaishnava-will-it-be-a-problem-to-get-their-kids-married-to-a-vaishnava/

 

Adiyen Sri Velukkudi Krishna Dasan,

Uyya Oraey Vazhi UdayavAr ThiruvAdi,

Sarvam Sri Krishna Kudumbham,

Sarvam SriKRishnarpanam Asthu

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1 on January 16, 2019

What if the husband after marriage does not wish to take Pancha Samskaram? Can the wife only take samasrayanam without the husband, swami?

Adiyen Ramanuja Dasi?

on January 17, 2019

Swami had explained in some Upanyasams, it’s always better for both to get at the same time but this is not hard constraint. Separately is also fine.

Swami: Please forgive and correct this ignorant Dasan if it’s wrong.

Adiyen Badrinarayana Ramanuja Dasan!

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2 on January 22, 2019

Adiyen

Adiyen got samashrayanam alone.. husband allowed and supporting but he didn’t take now, may be in future. If family accepts u can proceed. It’s all Velukuddi swami acharya and bhagavan wish whom to get when. May be u can do first and guide your family to get samashrayanam and do the Thiruvaradhana

Shamikkavum swami

Adiyen

on January 22, 2019

Thanks for the reply, akka.

on January 23, 2019

Adiyen

Sri Velukkudi Krishnan Swami ThiruvAdigale saranam

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1 on January 23, 2019

Sri Ramanuja Munaye Namaha,

Sri Velukkudi Krishnan Swami Gurvuve Namaha,

 

Arpudham Nivethitha BhagavAta. BhagavAtA’s ThiruvAdikku Pallandu,

 

 

In sampradhayam, Swami has said a saying called “Yatherchaya Sugirtham (எதேர்ச்சிய ஸுக்ரிதம்/Accidental blessings) received from Thayar-Perumal”

 

Means, even if one did UNINTENTIONAL good deeds to others (unknowingly it happened), still the person gets BhagavAN’s blessings,. Swami says few extreme examples:

eaxample1) If one person never likes to go inside Perumal temple and dislikes to get HIS dharshan, but at some point the person gets into  the Perumal Temple to protect himself from getting drenched in rain, though the person intention is not to go inside temple at all times in the past, then Perumal still gives them HIS blessings by blindfolding himself and says to Piratti that “Paaru Avan En Koilukkul vandhu yennai seavichaan (பாரு, அவன் என் கோயிலுக்குள் வந்து என்னை சேவிச்சான்)” and erases some of the karmas. This is the Krupai of Perumal due to Piratti Purushakaarathvam.

example2): In olden times, once, some perosn built a Thinnai (porch) outside their home to play the shastric prohibited cards (gambling). But, during Perumal temple utsavam, many devotees come from different cities and they stay on tehse proches for night sleep/rest and they leave in the morning. What Perumal does is, HE considers again that the Person has built the porch for his devotees to take rest and HE blessess the home owner, though the home owners intention was not for the devotees to take rest/sleep. This is the extremity of Peruma’s Karunai.

 

In BhagavAtas personal life situation, BhagavAtas husband got “Direct Blessings (நேரடி ஸுக்ரிதம்)” instead of (எதேர்ச்சிய ஸுக்ரிதம்/Accidental blessings) received from Thayar-Perumal, since BhagavAtA’s husband INTENTIONALLY “Allowed and Supported” BhagavAtAa to do GET RAMANUJA SAMBHANDHAM through pancha samskaram. So, BhagavAtas husband’s Moksham is already gauranteed in this Janma with NO DOUBHT irrespective of pancha samskaram., since BhagavAtAa’s husband has followed one of the other 14 ways to get Ramanuja Sambhandham already (knowlingly or unknowingly), where pancha samskaram is only one of the way to get Swami Ramanuja Sambhandham.

 

In the meantime, due to BhagavAtA’s Grattitude towards Swami Ramanujar ThiruvAdi/GuruParamparai, BhagavAtas husband Nishtai will also keep increasing, and will pull BhagavAtA’s husband towards Swami Ramanujar ThiruvAdi as well.

 

So Don’t Worry. Sri Velukkudi Swami Arulal and BhagavAtA’s Asmadh Acharyan Krupayal, BhagavAtA and BhagavAtA’s husband will reach Moksham in this same Janma with Acharya Ramanujar Nirhedhukai Krupai, since Swami has said “Pettrukku Upayam Nin Peru Arulae (பேற்றுக்கு உபாயம் நின் பேரு அருளே)

 

Pettrukku: means Mokshathirkku (Sri Vaikunta Praapthikku)

Upayam: means Vazhi/Route

Nin: means BhagavAn HIMSELF

Peru Arulae: Thayar-Perumal Blessiing/Krupai received to us via HIS ThiruvAdi which is nothing but NamAlwar and inturn Alwar’ss ThiruvAdi is Swami Ramanujar tself will give Moksham.

 

Same rule applies to all of us (BhagavAtas).

 

Each one of us in same or different sampradhayams ALREADY got Swami Ramanuja Sambhandham through Sri Velukkudi krishnan Swami’s Abhimaanam (ஸுக்ரிதம்), so we don’t need to worry about Moskham at all.

 

Sri Velukkudi Krishnan Swami is UdayavAr.

 

Adiyen Sri Velukkudi Krishnan Dasan,

Uyya Oraey Vazhi UdayavAr ThiruvAdi,

Sarvam Sri Krishna Kudumbham,

Sarvam SriKRishnarpanam Asthu

on January 23, 2019

Adiyen

Many dasoham
Swami ..

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5 on September 8, 2019

Srimathey Ramanujaya Namaha.
Sri Velukkudi Krishnan Swamy thiruvadigalai sharanam.

Dear Bhagavatas,

To introduce myself, I am a non iyengar(also a non brahmin) from Tirupati, currently living abroad. I have been listening to Velukkudi Swamis lectures for the past 8 months. I am trying to practice his teachings. After speaking to some of the Bhagavatas, I was suggested to take samasryanam. I want to take it from Velukkudi Swamy. Could anyone please guide me through the procedure like how to approach Swamy?

Dasanudasan.

on September 9, 2019

Srimathe Rangaramanuja Mahadesikaya Namaha
Srimathe SriVarAha MahAdEsikAya Namaha
Sri Velukkudi Krishnan Swamy Thiruvadigaley Sharanam

Sri:
Swamy will guide you to an samAshrayaNa AchArya. Welcome to SriVaishnavism. Thanks for proper introduction.

Anthar bahischa tat sarvam vyApya nArAyaNa sthitha:

We all are BhAgavatha Goshti
Uyya orey vazhi Udayavar thiruvadi

Dasanudasan

on September 9, 2019

Srimathe Rangaramanuja Mahadesikaya Namaha
Srimathe SriVarAha MahAdEsikAya Namaha
Sri Velukkudi Krishnan Swamy Thiruvadigaley Sharanam

Hi All,

Let’s not forget samAshrayaNam is not like getting a passport or Visa stamping. Rules are rules. Dampathi means dampathi. There is a valid reason for every action.

When In doubt, If Velukkudi Swamy says about ShAsthram it should be correct this is the basic thumb rule.

It’s like gopAlaka kids saying “Dei Krishnan sollitAn da appo seriya thAn irukkum”

Even dhuryodhana followed KrishnA’s bodhAyana amavAsya

With good intent if we follow we also get good results

That’s all we need to know

Dasanudasan

on September 9, 2019

Srimathey Ramanujaya Namaha,
Sri Velukkudi Krishnan Swamy Thiruvadigale sharanam,

Dear Vikram Bhagavata,

Thanks for your response. I am confident that lord will help his devotees. But sometimes I feel like I am not doing it right. Living in a different part of the world and surrounded by people who donot believe in god, I get a lot of questions regarding the existence of god. Ignorance takes over me. It is getting hard to do my sadhana. Could you please suggest me some ways to overcome these challenges?

Dasanudasan

on September 9, 2019

Dear Aspiring Bhaktha,
Our Velukkudi Krishnan Swamy has devised daily rituals to be connected with almighty.

It’s usual if we are far away we tend to get more closer. If we are too close we usually tend to ignore. It’s human tendancy.

Adiyen went to Abudhabhi once and stayed there for 5 days if my memory is correct. Those were days like in hell.

Friend or fight whatever India is the best.

One thing is for sure, if we follow Swamy’s instructions adiyen is 100% sure we get results. It’s Sathyam.

Dasanudasan

5 days ago

Dhanyosmi Bhagavata.

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