Kindly help to clarify following queries from shastras perspective –
1. In a marriage, the seer (both during and after marriage) that the girl’s family gives – is it as per the wish and convenience of girl’s family or is this something specified by shastras? Can this be demanded by boy’s family?
2. Does shastras provide equal rights to both girl’s family and boy’s family on the bride and groom ? Or is it like any other danam where the one giving danam loses their right on girl?
3. Is it in accordance with Shastras, if a girl wants to meet her parents or vice versa everyday post marriage? Adiyen has not seen such practices with elders.
Requesting clarification, Swami