We cannot become awzhars so easily.. Krishna did not ask to disregard our family and members. He asked us to perform our Varnashrama dharma, Andal says kudi irundhu kulirndhelorempaavai.
Ramanujacharya with ocean of mercy he has given us Saranagathi gadyatrayamn please refer it.
Yathirajar has said those who are my sambandhis will surely attain moksham.. Become a ramanuja sambandhi.. Those who take ashrayam under him has nothing to worry about moksam.
Moksham is greater than any other material pleasure in any world.. How ever we question at the end we have to leave this body! Krishna says do your gruhasthrama karma without having attachment! Do bakthi along with the family engage them if it’s not possible.. Do it alone in the family as days goes they will join you with acharyans kripai.. Our vellukkudi swamin have also told lot of enpani clips regarding these topics.
Krishna never asked us to leave our family all of a sudden.. He asked us to do the least which is possible by everyone! Nothing impractical.
Offering him a leaf, flower, fruits, water with love is what he asks
He enjoys while we recite pashurams..
To accept only prasadam..
Sing dance service to bhagavathas
Visit to all divya desams with your dear family sing pasurams.
Train you kid with pashurams slokams teach him sanatana dharmam.. Which is the utmost responsibility.
If nothing is possible saranagathi from with humility and humbleness is enough.
Please refer Our swamis kannanin aramudhu videos.. How to do bakthi along maintaining materialistic relationships.. In his bhagavad Gita videos he magnificiently clarifies our doubts.
We don’t need to be like azwhar which isnt possible for badhatmas like us without their grace.. we can become their lotus feet dust.. For this samsara sagar Krishna bakthi is only samadhanam.. Only happiness for this dhukhalaam.
This family attachment is not new we have been in thousands of body and we don’t remember any one of those .. Krishna and thayar are with us in all those janmas. And they will be there for us eternally! All we have to do is make everyone God conscious! When there is no option we don’t need to leave the family but do bakthi.
Annamacharya in one of his kirtans says this life is a natakam nanati badhuku natakamu… Just a like movie…
Azhwar says this life is so temporary that maybe an minnal (lightning)can stay for some moments not this human body.
Desikans padhuka sahasranaamam
Andals nachiyar thirumozhi
There are limit less which just says sharagathi is enough to get moksham but it require little thagudhi. Very simple steps if practiced for years we will be successful
Krishna expects the possible from us not the impossible..
Basically bhagavad Gita clarifies every inch of our doubts.. Swami says doubts are very good for our spiritual development so please listen more.^_^
Forgive me if anything said wrongly adiyenin namaskaram.