Swamiji kindly clear my ignorance if possible

A prapannan should be good to everybody ,but how come we can have the control over how other people think about us? By the way adiyen is 27 years old and been following acharyan from 24 years old

From Prapannan

Sri:
Swami has told in EnPani “we can’t be good to everybody”. Even SriRam had Ravana as his enemy. Though ram didin’t consider him as enemy. Ravens was considering Ram as enemy. We cannot control how others think about us but we can be good to our consciousness. Such a consciousness is bound to be slave of Super Consciousness called “Sriman Narayana”.
.Dasanudasan

Sri Prapanna Jana Koodasthar aana NammAzhwar Thiruvadigaley Sharanam.
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