Reason for Divorce – Bill Gates

Updated on July 4, 2021 in Good qualities for human
10 on May 6, 2021

Dear Velukkudi swami,

 

Most of the top richest persons got divorced, with Bill Gates the latest. 

 

 

What is the summary to learn? What could be the general reason for their divorces, given the persons are so rich.

 

Adiyen

 

 

 
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Namaskaram Swami,

Please listen to Enpani 294, 419. As Swami has said in multiple upanyasams, if the couple understands the true purpose of marriage, which is serving the Bhagavan and his Bhagavatas, and not for self-enjoyment, divorce, and many issues will disappear. Koorathalwar, broke the negative impact of dosam that Andal had by clarifying and living this true purpose. 

adiyen,
Ramanuja dasan.  

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adiyen believe that we should certainly care as it sets a wrong example to common people and derails the foundations of Sanatana dharma. so whatever in our capability, we can do we should try to pass on the message of true purpose of marriage to the younger generation that will avoid this is in the future. adiyen’s nephew went through a similar situation influenced by these high-profile divorces and they are also pretty rich young educated god worshiping couple. We went through a rough patch recently, which could’ve been avoided but adiyen realized it so late. 

on May 8, 2021

Swami,

Listened to the audios. Thank you for reply Badri swami. Additionally adiyen noted that however rich they might be, they still do not win over the manas and the indriyas

Either unable to live harmoniously or unable to rule over the indriyas

Adiyen

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0 on May 8, 2021

Srimathe Ramanujaya Namaha,

Namaskaram Swami’s,

There is a concept called “Yathercheya SUkritham” that Vishista Advaita Poorvacharyas has said which adiyen has heard in Velukkudi Swami’s upanyasams.

What it means is, “a human receiving accidental blessings from BHagavAN Sriman Narayana even though their action was NOT with an intention to do a Punya karma or a Kainkaryam knowingly” from Velukkudi Swami’s upanyasams as:

என் ஊரை சொன்னாய்,

என் பேரை சொன்னாய்,

என் அடியார்க்கு நிழல் குடுத்தாய்

etc….

Meaning:

  • One person is walking on street outside a Perumal Temple, but he or she doesn’t like to go inside temple to pray HIM, but due to a sudden rain, he or she takes shelter on the temple premises by telling the crowd as “please move, I need to get into PaarthaSaarthay Perumal Temple (என் பேரை சொன்னாய்), then BHagavAn considers as a good credit (punya karma) as பரவாயில்லையே, நம்ம கோயிலுக்குள் நம்மளை கும்பிட வந்து இருக்கானே even though his/her intention was deliberate to go inside temple.
  • Another person who is residing on the streets of a Perumal temple, built a Thinnai (front porch/patio in modern terms) to play cards which is prohibited by Shastras. Definitely, he will acquire sins, but he acquires punya due to a different scenario. Like Yatri who come to visit the temple couldn’t find a lace to sleep that night, so the devotee choses the front porch of that home and sleeps over night and HE left next morning to visits Temple. SO BhagvAn gives credits (Punya karma) to the person who built front porch though his intention was to play cards and as a Satram for Yatris (என் அடியார்க்கு நிழல் குடுத்தாய்)
  • Another person says, lets go to Alwar THirunagari and build a pop soda factory on the banks of Thamara BHarani river, which is actually true (not recommended by shastars) BHagavAN gives credit (punya karma) to the person as என் ஊரை சொன்னாய்,

So one receives Yathercheya SUkritham for all such actions done. So these Materialistic persons grow more due to their PUnya karma increasing accidentally, because one or the other way, their developments are being utilized by a SriVaishnava knowingly or unknowlingly.

 

In the above list, there is a Materialistic developer whose name is missed but he is not divorced but he has received Yathercheya SUkritham from SriKRishna before he died. His name is Steve Jobs (Apple Owner). 

Before he started a company, he was very poor and struggled in his life, but after having SriKrishna Prasadham knowingly or unkowingly, his life changed due to SriKRishna’s blessings due to Yathercheya SUkritham.

You can read or listen his full speech in this link, but a small portion from his speech for the Yathercheya SUkritham section as follows.

I didn’t have a dorm room, so I slept on the floor in friends’ rooms, I returned Coke bottles for the 5¢ deposits to buy food with, and I would walk the 7 miles across town every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the Hare Krishna temple. I loved it. And much of what I stumbled into by following my curiosity and intuition turned out to be priceless later on.

Text of Steve Jobs’ Commencement address (2005) (stanford.edu)

Steve Jobs’ 2005 Stanford Commencement Address – YouTube

So these Materialistic developers either married or divorced doesn’t matter?, once their credit (punya karma) hits rock bottom, then they will face the hardships and come to Sharnagathy on BHagavAN Sriman Narayana Lotus feet on this Janma or some Janma, since Punya KArma or Paapa Karma doens’t lead to Moksham, just BHagavAN krupai Leads to MOksham.

 

FDI,

Other REAL TIME examples in our period:

  1. Previous TN Chief Minister Karunanidhi though talks against Perumal, still got Yathercheya SUkritham  from Perumal, since he was cooperative in adding Alwargal Tamizh in one of the Tamizh maanadu and was also quitely listening to Velukkudi SriKrishnan Swami’s speech as in this link. Due to the blessings from Perumal, he took Swami RamanujAR serial afterwards though people don’t understand why he took that serial. Its because of this Perumal’s Yathercheya SUkritham as என் அடியார் பேச்சை கேட்டாய். Either he will take a better birth next time or due to Velukkudi Swami’s blessings, he could be in Moksham. We never know. Velukkudi Sri.U.Ve. Sri.Krishnan SwAmi’s speech at Tamilnadu CM Function on ” AzhwArgal thamizh” – YouTube
  2. Actor Kamalahaasan in Vishwaroopam movie starting seen shows that he protects the Ranagnatha Perumal Idol from the Kirumikanda cholan Raja and speaks out loud says “Swami Raamanuja” when  though not intended to have BHakthi on Swami RamanujAR lotus feet, he still received Yathercheya SUkritham  from Perumal as என் பேரை சொன்னாய், due to which he became so humble at a later time when he went to get Aasrivadham of Swami RamanujAr lineage Sanyasi Acharya Matam during one of his movie shooting paapanasam. Adiyen could not find now the pictures of Sanyasi Achraya sitting on the Raised Gyana Peedam and Kamalahaasan sitting on the floor wearing veshti with his legs folded and conversing with the sanyasi Acharya. So adiyen couldn’t post the link now.

Why Adiyen picked these two real time examples are to show how one can be Odd or Naasthika in their life, still can get Perumal blessings if they do any action accidentally that is in favour of BhagavAn and HIS devotees, though their actual intention was not to accomplish a good dharmik deed.

This Yathercheya SUkritham leads one to increase punya karmas, so the idea of BHagavAN is that, it will help them to reduce their further paapa actions, so that at some point they also become devotees of Permual by doing SHarnagathy.

Todays’ Aasthika’s (Thesist) are either past Naaasthikaas (Athesist) or Materialistic enjoyers.

Adiyen (ElayaAlwar) Srinivasa (DhoddayacharyAr) Dasan.

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0 on May 9, 2021

Namaskaram swami,

Amazing explanation ElayaAlwar swami. Beautifully explained the “yadruchaya sukrutam” concept.

This is the answer adiyen was looking for as specific reason. Could not correlate or come up with “yadruchaya sukrutam” concept for these divorces due to adiyen’s agnyanam.

Would like to discuss more on these fine aspects (Vignyanam) in this forum apart from ritualistic doubts.

Thank you all.

Adiyen

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0 on May 9, 2021

Next time, should refrain from using words like “beautifully” as Dharma says not to do Nara stuti. Instead use words like “good”

Kshamyatham

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Does the chart mean that if you want to be amongst the top richest, you have to divorce? 😀

on July 4, 2021

You get rich first and then get divorced.. Chronology is important

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0 on May 14, 2021

Adhu avA personals.

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