pointing perumal for small things

Updated on February 4, 2022 in General
11 on January 17, 2022

Srimathae ramanujayea namaha!
Sri Velukkudi krishnan swmay thiruvadigala saranam!

Namaskaram swamy,

I am facing a situation where my sister for every small things happening around scolding perumal.how perumal can be cause for what others doing around.On that time i am getting very much anger.I am not able to control.Tried so much time to explain her but not hearing what i am saying.I am not getting how to handle this kind of situation.

karunai uruvana en perumala thittum pothu manasu romba valikkuthuu.

adiyen.

 
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Yamuna-amma, namaskaaram.

Firstly, make sure your sister’s doubts do not infect you. You please be clear that Perumal is not causing any harm to anybody. He is simply permitting every individual’s karma to unfold. He is the ‘Director’ of our story, but we ourselves are the script-writer for our life. Whatever script/screenplay we have prepared for ourselves by our previous actions, He simply lets that unfold. Only when we surrender to Him completely, He may make some changes to the script; still he retains the overall flow of what we had prepared.

Secondly, for some time please do not try to convince her with your explanations. She may not be ready to understand. You are able to understand because of the people you associate with (either in person or through upanyasams etc). Likewise, her thought process will be in line with the kind of people she is associating (either in person or through social media and other virtual platforms). 

நிலத்தியல்பால் நீர்திரிந் தற்றாகும் மாந்தர்க்கு 
இனத்தியல்ப தாகும் அறிவு
 
Until she keeps associating with people with illogical intelligence, she will continue to drift that way. She will think you are simply sentimental; the more you try to explain to her the more she will explore other sources to counter your explanation.
Just don’t discuss spiritual topics with her at all. Simply pray to Perumal for her. Because of your surrender to Him, He will arrange situations for her to change her heart in this life.
 
adiyen dasan
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1 on January 18, 2022

Dhanyosmi swamy for clarifying my query and making my confused mind clear.

adiyen

on January 18, 2022

Srimate Raamnujaye Namaha,

Yes true arguments and explanations don’t work for most. But if we can convince them to hear for 15 mins everyday some audio series may be Mahabharatam/ Harivamsam/ Vidura neethi etc.. slowly their concepts and understanding will change by regular hearing.

Also we can show how so many other people are having more bigger struggles in life and how by Perumaal’s mercy difficulties are reduced..This explanation will convince them only after they hear regularly.

Adiyen

 

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2 on January 29, 2022

Your sister is greater bhakthai. She is gyAni. She knows who to scold for small things.

SAnkethyam pArihAsyam va sthObam yevam helanam vaa

Avana thittama yaara thitradhu?

Anavaradhan avanaiye ninappadhu dhan bhakthi

Innum nanna thittatum

Kadhu kulira keppen

The scoldings and complains of Gopis are relishable to the ears. But not that of Kamsa and Shisupala.

What counts is the devotion in the heart.

So, before you say ‘kadhu kulira keppen’, please ascertain which category the speaker is in – scolding out of devotion or scolding out of non-devotion. This discrimination is very important. Without this vivekam, we will loose ourselves.

adiyen dasan.

on January 29, 2022

KaraNan Nee Karpavai Nee Katravai Nee

sahAdeva said to Krishna, “You plan everything why cheating as if we are involved”?

Ellam Avan seyal. We think we are related & undergoing pain & pleasure.

Krishna Ksheera Chora:
Krishna Stree Lola:

Was sisupalan’s scoldings
What’s wrong? Unmai dhaney

Poiya sonnan?

Vennai thirudan
Ullam kavar KaLvan

Adhu eduthukarava sindhanai poruththu irukku

Dasanudasan

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0 on January 29, 2022

Kannan oru bayandhangoli

Yashodhamma paathu bayandhana illaiya?

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0 on January 31, 2022

Dhanyosmi swamy for answering my query through todays enpani 2368.

adiyen

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0 on February 4, 2022

My appa used to say

@Kambandasan Swamy

வைதே உய்ந்து போனான்
Some Azhwar pasuram

திட்டி திட்டி யே பெரு வீடு கிடைத்தது

சிசுபாலன் திட்டி திட்டி attained success

Sisupalan attained success by scolding

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0 on February 4, 2022

Vaikundam kidaikkum na Perumala nanna thittungo

Krishna vennai thirudan
Kannan pennalan

My classmate friend said lastly Sisupalan scolded Draupathi which Perumal didin’t like

What I felt was, Perumal decided first itself to close his chapter.

If Perumal wanted he could have changed Sisupalan’s mind.

Kannan Vichitra Eeshwaran

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0 on February 4, 2022

Bhaya Krith
Kamsanukku Bhaya Kruth

Bhaya Nashana:
Prahladhanukku Bhaya Nashana:

So in totality “Perumal namma mind la irukkanum” in some route

Perumal mind la naama irukkara madhiri edhaiyavadhu seiyanum

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