Srimathe Rangaramanuja Mahadesikaya Namaha
This was probably as answered before from individual perspective. This question is other way round
Why auspicious activities like kalyAnam, upanayanam, sashtyabdhapoorthi, sathAbhishEkam are conducted on the day of ekAdEshi while it’s impossible to eat or force to eat someone? We cannot stop serving on the occasion. Is this a dharma sankatam?
Dasanudasan