Sri Ramanujaye namah
Whenever I see when someone is doing something wrong I used to tell don’t do so it’s paavam and try to restrict them and after that mostly I end up disturbed my peace. Its something like as I have controlled some activity the paavam has come to me? It’s something like when we are suggesting others we are acting like controller that’s why the paavam has come to us. I can understand that God is the only controller, but when someone is doing wrong should we just watch then thinking let’s not involve in others matters and God will take care as he is the controller?
Request you to please clarify whether we can involve in others matters or not.. As I’m confused that if we won’t involve I feel like selfish or self concerned and if we involve its becoming like controller and ending up taking others karma and getting disturbed.