Nana Nani Retirement homes & Nuclear family

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Swamy Adiyen Ramanujadasan

Periyava Neengal advising us for Joint Family and Divine family But #Sankaratv
@sankaratvonline
is keep marketing, promoting the #NuclearFamily like #NannaNanni Home #Similar how it’s affecting the Hindu family unity and bringing detachment. Your advice on enpani for Periyava also to avoid such advertisement will be good.

Adiyen Ramanujadasan

 
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Our swamy has already emphasised the importance of service to parents in so many enpani audios and other upanyasams. 

Despite that if people are doing the opposite, and Perumal Himself is patiently waiting for them to correct their attitude, as a servant of Perumal our swamy will also do the same. 

So, I don’t think our swamy should be asked to speak specifically against the advertisements. It is not part of his call of duty; it is not appropriate for us to suggest him to do such advise to others. 

adiyen dasan.

on October 13, 2021

Dasan, very sorry if i stressed as Swamy ! Just a frustration even divine group like Sankara TV Channel pushing for detachment. Periyava kshamikavum , Yes Swamy already did his best.

5 days ago

Eppo Swamy ?
“Perumal Himself is patiently waiting for them to correct their attitude,”

Parents Sethu போனதுக்கு அப்பறமா?

Law should be enforced and implemented.

Children who don’t take care of parents must be published

Dasanudasan

5 days ago

*Punished

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2 on October 13, 2021

Swamis,

Please also look at it from a different perspective.

People (parents) who are already experiencing a discomfort because of their children and seeking some self-respect can go for such options. Why shun it ?

When problems are of varying nature, how can the solution be unique ?

Should the change happen from inside (from us) or from outside (like builders/advertisers, etc.) ? 

– Adiyen

on October 13, 2021

True if the same advertisement came from Suntv I don’t worry ! But it’s from the divine tv channels where unity should be motivated than tempting advertisement for detachment.

adiyen.

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Srimathe Rangaramanuja Mahadesikaya Namaha

Ananya’s Naana Naani
ஆனந்தம் எங்கெங்கும்
Ananya’s நானா நானி
ஆரோக்யம் எங்கெங்கும்

In a movie called அப்பத்தாவை ஆட்டய போட்டுட்டாங்க
Same message “Don’t send parents (AMMA) to old age home”

Super message. What to do, such movies will not run 100 days

Basha and criminal movies will become super hit

What to do? We live in such a society

Why do you think movies like Raman Andaalum Ravanan Andaalum are coming?

Because these people don’t know the difference.

Dasanudasan

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அப்பாவோட சொத்து வேணும் – அப்பா வேண்டாம்
அம்மாவோட சொத்து வேணும் – அம்மா வேண்டாம்

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Sarvam Money 💵💰 Mayam Jagathu

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Yes, Vikram swamy. the attitude of ‘sarvam money mayam’ has taken deep roots in everyone’s heart. Neglect of aged parents is not the only problem arising out of this. Practically every problem is because of this attitude.

Why do we tend to place so much dependence on hoarded wealth? Because of diminishing faith on God, diminishing faith in karmic reactions, பாவம் செய்தால் இன்றில்லையேல் என்றோ ஒரு நாள் பலன் கிட்டியே தீரும் என்றிருந்தால், பாவம் செய்வதை தவிற்போம்; செய்த தவறுகளுக்கு வருந்தி மன்னிப்பு கோறுவோம். We will keep focus on eternal goal and ignore the temptations for temporary (apparent) benefits.

We can not change the course of kaliyugam at large scale. But if we keep the ‘small world’ around us filled with spiritual ambience, discussions, kirtanams etc, then individuals in that small zone can keep the effect of kali away from their lives.

This satsangam is one such environment given by our swamy. Our namaskarams to him.

adiyen dasan.

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Vikram swamy, I had not known about the movie you have mentioned. So, just now I watched a short ‘review’ about that movie. I too don’t agree with the story line.

While the message that aged parents should be taken care of is good, the story that is woven to deliver this message is based on male-female attraction on the earthly life is not good. Couple of years ago there was another movie which highlighted such relationship (RajKiran and Revathy were the protagonists). 

Old age is the time one must detach oneself from from all material attachments and progressively focus on deepening our relationship with Perumal. All our traditions and practices emphasise this and help us cultivate this attitude right from young age. In societies where this knowledge is lacking, people have to depend on their attachment for their partner, and have to keep changing their partner with the passage of time. 

In our present society, the value for spiritual values is degrading, and movies like these are an indication. I personally would not support such themes.

By the 70s our society had degraded to some extent, so ‘raman aandaalum ….’ was just a song. Now it has degraded more; so ‘raman aandalum…’, ‘ravanan’ are full length movies!

If we appreciate pa.paandi and appathaava … movies, then it won’t be a surprise to see worse things to come in the next few decades.

adiyen dasan.

 

PS; A very good instruction to take care of aging parents is in Mahabharata. 

  1. how Yudhdhisthira took care of Dhritharastra and Gandhari after the war.
  2. ‘கொக்கென நினைத்தாயோ கொங்கணவா?” story. (our swamy has narrated this story in enpani. if someone knows the enpani # please share. It is better to hear from him than read from improper sources).
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Srimathe Rangaramanuja Mahadesikaya Namaha

Correct Swamy, Agree to an extent.

Movie is watched by all. Not just by people like us. We should take only the good. One cannot make movie on vAnaprastham and expect it to be watched by all. It will be like documentary

Jana ranjakama edukkanum nutu some tactics might have been employed. Else it will be like documentary.

Adiyen was interested in the message rather than the way it was potrayed.

That amma is crying to son “don’t leave me into old age home,I will be good, not urinate on bed due to diabetes , not fight with daughter in law, no need to buy medicines”

Even a stone will break.

At last the old age person who tried to comfort her in old age home call her sister and she calls Anna. That love drama was to make the son accept her fearing social respect.

Just don’t carried away by half baked reviews. Adiyen not promoting the movie. Please see the message.

Coming to Mahabharata
What did Vidhura say to Dhritharastra?
You want to eat food and be comforted after death of 100 sons? Bhima was poisoned and you eat food from him. Are you not ashamed?

This made Dhritharastra sacrifice everything.

Adiyen not sure why Vithurar said like that? What’s wrong in being United? Does this mean all of us choose vAnaprastham in life?

Is it applicable only to Kshatriya way of life?

How many SriVaishnavites chose vAnaprastham?

Dasanudasan

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Namaskaram Swamigale

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cNR-HrxDHT8&t=2933s Do watch it, Savitri & Satyavan Charitram. Very intresting and relevant very much to the thread

 

Adiyen

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